The Fog of Divorce; Finding Clarity

The Fog of Divorce; Finding Clarity

If you thought things were secure and your spouse suddenly files for a divorce, it can be the shock of a lifetime. You weren’t expecting this. And while you felt some recent disconnection with your spouse, you’ve felt this way before, and things always got better....
You Have Decided to Divorce—Now What?

You Have Decided to Divorce—Now What?

Making the decision to get a divorce is the first step in what can feel like an overwhelming process. No matter what terms you’re ending things on with your spouse, a divorce is a difficult time for everyone. But not every divorce is the same. Understanding that you...
Does Divorce Mean Failure? – Not So!

Does Divorce Mean Failure? – Not So!

Choosing to get divorced doesn’t mean you’re choosing failure. Of course, it’s easy to feel that way throughout the process. This is because, for many people, marriage becomes their identity. They see themselves as one half of a partnership, and nothing else. When you...

Prepare for Divorce; Consider your end goals

The circumstances leading up to a divorce can feel overwhelming to anyone. Because emotions are running high and your attorney is likely using terminology you’ve never heard of before, it’s important to take a step back and consider what life will be like when the...

How the Trauma of Divorce Affects Everyone Involved

You may not often think of divorce as a traumatic event. But that’s exactly what it is. Trauma can change the way you see the world and the way you see yourself. Divorce has the same effect. When you’re married, your identity changes over time. You become a unit and...